I was surfing through cmt.com when i came across '20 questions with rodney crowell':
6. You wrote a couple of songs that appeared on Keith Urban's Golden Road album, "What About Me" and "You Won." What were the stories or inspirations behind those songs?
"What About Me" was written when Keith was going through a time when there was a lot of demand and pressure on him. He was probably thinking about, "I've got to find some time for me, just to have a life." So we wrote that as we were talking about it. "You Won," if you really look at that song. ... we started talking about spirituality, and "You Won" is a spiritual song. It works on two levels. It could be a love interest having worn you down and finally getting you to come around, or it can be finally surrendering to the love and care of a benevolent God.